和一位已许久没有来往的朋友在MSN上开始聊了起来。想起当初为了一点纷争闹得关系十分僵的我们,如今能心平气和的谈天。想必经过这次的冷战之后,大家更能了解对方的想法,我也不会像以前一样给予她过于关心的压力,希望她也会收敛自己的倔强脾气。
新年新希望,希望在新的一年里,我们再度重建一个新的朋友关系。
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New Teory
Recently, I'm just having some conflicts with one of my best friend. It was quite a terrible fight between me and her until we just become an SMS friend which means only communicate each other using SMS. And it only happened when we wish each other's birthday. Other than that, we have nothing to say even we seeing each other online in MSN....
This is the friend which I'm quite treasure a lot. After "lost" her, I have learned something in my life. Another new teory for the human relationship, which is do not ever measure the relationship between you and her. As if you measure it, you will realise that not everyone will spent the same effort as you do for the friendship. It will actually demotivate me quite some time to build up another relationship.
I should say so, there will be more and more new teories happened in our lifes and waiting for us to dig it out, digest it and using it....
This is the friend which I'm quite treasure a lot. After "lost" her, I have learned something in my life. Another new teory for the human relationship, which is do not ever measure the relationship between you and her. As if you measure it, you will realise that not everyone will spent the same effort as you do for the friendship. It will actually demotivate me quite some time to build up another relationship.
I should say so, there will be more and more new teories happened in our lifes and waiting for us to dig it out, digest it and using it....
一份耕耘一份收获?
小时候,老师常常将这一句至理名言挂在嘴边与同学们共勉之 -- 一份耕耘一份收获。长大之后,才发现世事并不是如此。有能力的人未必就能出人头地,没有能力的人也未必一事无成。“适者生存”才是一直能在这个社会上百战百胜的绝句。所谓适者生存就是要如何去适应已成定局的环境。别想着如何去改变它,而是改变自己的想法或理想来适应你无法扭转的趋势。这就是我现在应该要学习的至理名言。 纵使心理有多么的不平衡,也得不断说服自己来适应现在的社会。
耕耘过后的收获也许不是名或利,而是另一种人生的体验。哪怕是开心的或是不开心的,只能用积极的态度来面对各种不同的挑战。不然,就会继续悲观、继续怨天尤人。今天的我刚刚就尝过这样的滋味。
耕耘过后的收获也许不是名或利,而是另一种人生的体验。哪怕是开心的或是不开心的,只能用积极的态度来面对各种不同的挑战。不然,就会继续悲观、继续怨天尤人。今天的我刚刚就尝过这样的滋味。
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